safe sex

In safe sex, it never really talks about having sex.  Also in the poem, it says have sex, have emotionless sex, then you are safer.  Yet as you go through the poem you see that the author believes that it is a wrong thing and "permanent humiliation".  It is indirectly saying that all the things it said in the beginning are bad and not a good thing.  The author takes a very indirect route and does not directly say having a one night stand is bad.  Yet in the other poem, it directly states that having sex without love is a good thing.  It says that if both the lovers understand that there is no emotion involved, then there is nothing wrong and nobody will get hurt.  "They do not mistake the lover for their own pleasure"  Directly stating that there is emotionless sex is a better thing than getting hurt.