conformity part 1

Conformity comes from all aspects of life weather it is from parents, school, war or anything in daily life that has an effect on us physically and mentally.  I believe that this conformity comes into light from the new 21 century media that has had  a huge effect on conformity, but yet i believe that there was conformity before, there was a different type of conformity and the conformity pressures my grandparents had was different than the pressures that we have.  Yet we all have this pressure of conformity, if back then the pressure was to conform and get married, that is gone and a new pressure of looking well, and creating a false persona weather that is physically or mentally because of the effect of media and social media.  Also social media has an effect of conformity because people do not know how to talk to people without help of a device.  The most important thing for my grandparents generation did not have the pressure of social media to effect them and make them conform in that way even though they had the pressure but i dont know where it comes from, that is my topic to figure out where it comes from?